About Me

“Nothing in this world can stop a man with the right attitude;
Nothing in this world can help a man with the wrong attitude.”

This is my first blog and it will be about my sexual encounters. Because of my work, I frequently have to fly around the world and somehow I have lots of offers. I get offers at the supermarket, in the train, in the plane and of course, in toilets. Not trying to boast but thought I can just get them down for keepsake. Consider this my personal ‘little black book’, or a sex journal if you will. Just want to keep track of my sexual encounters. Sex is a very intimate and personal thing for me. And I hope to remember each and every person that was once a part of my life even if it was for a very brief moment.

I am a straight guy and I intend to meet the right woman, get married and start my own family in the future. But for now, I just want to do my job establish my career and enjoy life as a single man, and enjoy as much sex as I can: with a man or a woman – dont really matter. What matters is good or bad sex, and yes, there’s such a thing as a bad sex.

I am not an angel but I am not evil either. I am just me. If you like to judge other people and find fault, or think you are high and mighty, go read someone else’s blog. If you are easily offended or petty, dont read this blog too cos I will be using words like ‘fuck’, ‘cunt’, ‘penis’, ‘masturbation’, ‘sex’, ‘adult toys’ most, if not ALL the time. I have to: I will be talking about sex – my personal take, my idea, my preference, and encounters. Deal with it! And if all this talk excites you, you are most welcome to stay and read on. Enjoy yourself here and put in your comment by all means.

Cheers,

Kirk (a.k.a. Sexy Tenga)
sexytenga@hotmail.com

PS: Why ‘sexy tenga’? Read my post on ‘Lost Love Lost‘
PSS: What is tenga? Read this or buy tenga here

sexytenga@hotmail.com

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November 23, 2008 at 5:35 am

rusty

wow….with that body of yours, you can get any sex you want!!!

November 24, 2008 at 4:48 am

sthomme

nice…well said sexy tenga.

November 27, 2008 at 3:19 am

sexytenga

Hi rusty, thanks for the compliment! Wink!!!

November 27, 2008 at 3:20 am

sexytenga

Hi sthomme, thanks for commenting dude.

November 30, 2008 at 11:21 am

Cherley A B

five reasons why i think i am in love with you already:
1. you can write so well (your male sex encounters)
2. sense of humor
3. great bod
4. confident sense of sexuality so unlike the guys I dated in the past
5. your fastination with tenga – i intent to get one for my current bf and hopes he enjoys it. which cup is your fav by theway?

cher

November 30, 2008 at 1:24 pm

sexytenga

hi cher,
thanks for your kind complements.
my no. 1 is the double hole. i like different tightness. no. 2 is air cushion for the vaccum effect. if you are getting them from http://www.tengatango.com you need to have paypal. hope your man likes them. gd luck.

December 8, 2008 at 5:34 pm

piak

it’s me piak (from Fridae). i followed your link to find hot pictures here….thank you very much. great job!!!

December 10, 2008 at 6:47 pm

sexytenga

thanks piak, stay happy dude.
cheers,
kirk

December 19, 2008 at 10:57 pm

maurie

I’m definitely a fan – thanks for the link from Fridae
maurie

December 21, 2008 at 9:09 pm

worldbeat99

I like your m2m stories. very sensual. it would be great if you could show a picture of your face.

December 22, 2008 at 3:00 pm

ahh, i followed your link here out of curiousity. and i must say, im not dissappointed. You have an interesting approach to life, and you express them well. your fascination with tenga is influential and im sure you’ve managed to boost their sales with this site.

Anyhow, looking forward to read more. Btw, would any of your travel lead you to Sydney someday?

December 22, 2008 at 3:00 pm

ahh, followed your link here out of curiousity. and i must say, im not dissappointed. You have an interesting approach to life, and you express them well. your fascination with tenga is influential and im sure you’ve managed to boost their sales with this site.

Anyhow, looking forward to read more. Btw, would any of your travel lead you to Sydney someday?

December 23, 2008 at 4:17 am

sexytenga

yeah i am in Australia about once a year sometimes more. thanks for spending time at my blog… at least i know people are there. not my intention to sell tenga – i am not selling or promoting – maybe recommending. since calling myself ‘sexytenga’ i had loads of questions like ‘wat is tenga’, why that name, where to buy tenga, etc, etc, etc.
i would love to talk about my work but for some (stupid) reason it is against company policies so that’s it.

i had this crazy theory that if men had enough sex would they go do crazy things like start a war, or buy guns, or beat someone up cos they are of a different race, religion, or sexual orientation? a long shot maybe but who knows? tenga CAN bring about world peace? LOL!

let’s face it – sex is not the same as masturbation but when a sex toy is more than just masturbation and can actually imitate sex – well, i say we have a winner. when i slip into the cup – fully aroused, my dick thinks he’s home again. ‘he’ loves the feeling and ‘he’ is happy like it’s his birthday!

life’ short. i am turning 30 soon and that is freaking scary for me. it is not the aging part – it is the sex part. face it, the orgasms and erections will be weaker and sex less satisfying – so i gonna make it fun and enjoyable while it lasts.

i said it before and i will say it again – if there’s no sex (or tenga) in heaven, I am NOT going…

Have a Bless Christmas! Peace! Tenga Rules! Sex Rocks!

December 31, 2008 at 6:49 am

Migo

Your sexual experience is not surprising. People who are sexually active are not necessarily gay just because they are having or enjoying sex with men. Even during the Roman and Greek time, homosexuality acts are totally acceptable. Even today, in the Middle East (particularly in Saudi Arabia), Arab men enjoys homosexual act because it is readily available without the emotion but with intimacy. But they do not call themselves gay because they know it is just a sexual encounter rather than sexual preference.

Homosexuality is a by product of the Western society that wants to label everything. I remember when I was travelling is Asia (India and Bangladesh), men are holding each other’s hand without precaution. I tried that in Europe (England and Ireland), I had the most vile and diabolical stares in my life. It seems scandalous and inappropriate as the yobs wants to strangle me.

Sad world but I hope you will be proud of your experince. I am incline to think that homosexuality is a Western disease of finding cure and labelling everything (Do not even get me started with bulimia and anorexia). You are one fine example that having sex with men (and at the same time enjoying it) is not a form of homosexuality. It is just sexual encounter, nothing else.

As what Danny Dyer said, a man wanting to have a cock once in a blue moon is sweet. And you are that man! Kudos to you! May you have more experience with men’s sensuality.

Migomigo
P.S.
Thanks for sending the heart twice. Aren’t you kind?

January 4, 2009 at 4:26 am

Justin Heng @ KL Malaysia

Wow..!!! I like your website! Great job !

January 5, 2009 at 2:51 pm

sexytenga

Hi Migo, well said dude. glad to know that someone share my thoughts. thanks dude.

January 6, 2009 at 4:10 pm

paul

i admire your hot body but i have one advice – until the day you admit you are not “straight” per se, you are living in a fabricated world created by yourself. i m not trying to make you feel bad, i just want you to be truly happy when you are honest to your true self. good luck man!

January 7, 2009 at 3:24 pm

sexytenga

Thanks Justin.

wink!

January 7, 2009 at 3:39 pm

sexytenga

hi paul, perhaps you should read Migo’s comment on December 31, 2008 at 6:49 am?

Ok, maybe I am not “straight”, maybe I am in denial, maybe I am a bisexual… it does not matter. Cos, well, I dont fucking care.

At the end of the day, just want to be myself and be watever i want to be.

That’s basically the whole problem – people need some identities so they know how to respond and think, and act and fit into some sterotypes. Dont believe me? Answer this simple question:

A 19-year old bisexual black Christian guy wants to buy a new CD. He is short of 2 dollards, who should he borrow money from:

a. his bisexual friend who is 36 years old
b. his black classmate
c. a christian friend who attends the same church
d. a white choir leader who is also gay
e. a 19-year old bisexual black Christian

Answer?

pick one before you read on.

If you spent more than 1 minute or if you had re-read the options more than once I have made my point.

Some would mistakenly think that I am unhappy about my situation, or that I am in some sort of crisis. Far from it. Really.

January 11, 2009 at 11:52 pm

azn_nomad

great blog man, keep up the good work.

and i totally agree with your response to paul. if you were denying yourself pleasure that you crave because you were trying to fit into one particular mould, then i’d also assume you weren’t happy. but that’s clearly not your case. sexuality is quite fluid, and if anything, you’re going with the flow!

take care buddy. look forward to reading more.

January 12, 2009 at 6:35 am

Signal_west

Thanks for recommending tenga

January 13, 2009 at 3:16 am

sexytenga

no problem

January 24, 2009 at 4:16 am

kissjack

i’m from Fridae.
i gave heart to you, you gave it to me.
thank you for your heart.
i was thinking ….what the tenga… that’s very exciting stuff, uh.
double hole looks good.
have a nice day X.O.X.O kissjack.

January 24, 2009 at 9:34 am

jetlagger

hey dude nice website. its so refreshing to see someone so honest about his bisexuality. send me an email if u ever go back to nyc would love to hang out w a cool dude like u

January 27, 2009 at 2:29 pm

page

Hi Kirk,

glad to have known you from fridae.. i clicked on your link and found it really interesting. Your entries are really truthful and refreshing!

Anyways you have a great week ahead and i look foreard to reading more entries from you!

Take Care,
Page@fridae

January 29, 2009 at 2:52 pm

sexytenga

thanks Page.

January 31, 2009 at 7:33 am

Karl

Hey can you show more of your physique photos?

You have quite a good bod… and I like following the body progress of working guys, like their workouts, diets, and how their bodies look over time.

November 2008… Any 2009 ones?

January 31, 2009 at 7:38 pm

princeming

Very nice blog. I love your profile and added you on MSN, hope you accept.

February 1, 2009 at 5:38 am

sexytenga

yeah – would do that if i can get the time. thinking of putting up my competition photos later.
how about you? are you into bodybuilding?

February 1, 2009 at 10:13 am

Karl

Um… not the overly-freaked-a-freak-Lee-Priest competitive type.

More like just the normal gym, workout, keeping in shape, getting leaner, more toned, etc.

February 1, 2009 at 10:25 am

Justtgay

Tks for ur heart on Fridae.com. So you in SG any time? justtgay@hotmail.com.

February 5, 2009 at 5:58 pm

bearyhorny

Thought it would be rude if i just read and didn’t post anything. Dunno what to write though, except, maybe just to say that I am happy for you, seems life is good and you are living it well. May it stay the way you want it, always. =]

February 6, 2009 at 6:06 pm

sexytenga

doing the best i can. after all, life is temporarily. wink!
kirk

February 16, 2009 at 5:20 am

H. Ismail

Thanx for allowing me to see ur blog, very NICE!

March 20, 2009 at 1:55 am

michael reeves

hello

March 21, 2009 at 5:39 am

Farhan Han

Hi Kirk,
i saw your link on the Trevvy website and i found your blog.Really interesting and love the photos.:-)

Have a great day.

Best wishes,

Farhan

March 21, 2009 at 4:06 pm

sexytenga

thanks for visiting my blog and liking it.

wink!
Kirk

March 27, 2009 at 11:50 am

shawn

Hey man you are really hot and very good at writing as well.. really hope to catch you somehow in singapore.

March 27, 2009 at 6:47 pm

sexytenga

thanks for the complements dude

wink!

April 2, 2009 at 4:40 pm

Arthur

Great website. I love it. You take care. Best wishes

April 5, 2009 at 1:51 pm

sexytenga

thanks Arthur

April 15, 2009 at 3:45 pm

rahul

Hi Tenga
Nice pics and very nice thiughts.
You must settle ,marry and live happy life.
SEx is an enjoymaent which u should enjoy from the core of ur haert.
Man or woman ,hardly matters ,but it is a matter of inside satisfaction.
Do u ever visit India?
Love to be ur frend?
wish if i have ur contact no.
Take care
thx
Rahul

April 15, 2009 at 5:49 pm

sexytenga

if marriage makes people happy why so many couples split?
“I asked God for all things so I may enjoy life –
instead He gave me life so I may enjoy everything.” Anon.

April 16, 2009 at 5:29 pm

rahul

nice
everyone has his own way of enjoyment. Happiness lies inside and you have to find it out. Explore and you will get it.

April 21, 2009 at 5:22 am

ryan

you are sexy

May 4, 2009 at 2:09 am

Remy Noel

an adonis…i guess sexy n hot is an understatement to describe you. read ur blog…interesting indeed. stay the way u r dude

May 10, 2009 at 3:59 am

sweetone

tenga…u r so hot……n love ur ‘thing’ workin on that tenga……..hope can find some1 w that hot body but with a real good heart (not really into the sex all d time)………no offense, sweetheart…..

May 14, 2009 at 12:33 pm

sexytenga

hi, thanks for your compliments
wink!

May 14, 2009 at 12:34 pm

sexytenga

hahaha! thank you for your compliments. you sure made my day

June 18, 2009 at 4:40 am

Kishan

hi friend keep it up u do gd job…….i like ur website and ur nice body

July 2, 2009 at 2:39 pm

jhon

YOU VERY SEXy………..Oh…my GOD….

I LIKE YOU…..

July 14, 2009 at 2:40 am

Jason

hi Kirk

very nice site and pics….

July 29, 2009 at 8:02 pm

Joey

Dude, love your blog!
Its always nice to know that there’s someone who thinks the same way as i do. Hope we can meet and chat for when you go back to singapore.
Oh,btw any chance to Jakarta too?

“….and enjoy as much sex as I can: with a man or a woman – dont really matter.” hear, hear!

October 8, 2009 at 11:48 pm

Hi SexyTenga, You emntioned:
life’ short. i am turning 30 soon and that is freaking scary for me. it is not the aging part – it is the sex part. face it, the orgasms and erections will be weaker and sex less satisfying – so i gonna make it fun and enjoyable while it lasts.
Well I am not teaching you or guiding you or interfere in your personal life in having alots of sex. You do not have to worry. Be it 30 or 40 or 50 or even more your sex desire is always there and more as your age numbers getting more Take me for example: I am 41. Guess what bro. the desire of sex dirve is driving me nuts as I age. I can even masturbate everyday and belief it or not sometimes more than once. Do not say having sex be it with my life partner or guys. I just enjoy sex with guys only recently like I said cos my sex desire for man is driving me nuts I just go what my deisire said. Butwhen I am abit younger I can control it by just watching gay porns and jerk off and then I am cool about it. But now I cannot just see ti any more I too want to get that experience and I tell you sexy tenga it is fantastic. Having sex with my life partner is wonderful but having sex with a guy is a satisfaction for me. Sucking thier dick and having it my arse for the first time, it is painful but a pain that lead to pleasure and satisfaction.
So do not worry as you age cos orgasm will be more as long as you love sex, sex will love you.
Well I guess that is what I have to say, Dom’t worry be happy sexytenga,

October 17, 2009 at 9:27 am

sexytenga

guess sexuality and aging is a real issue for many people glad you open (and man) enough to admit and do some psy adjustment about it… good luck mate. wink!

October 24, 2009 at 2:01 am

dicky

hi kirk thx for reply my msg
u have a sexy body n i like it
i wanna suck your dick
thx dicky
021 91636911 n 081905086118

December 24, 2009 at 6:06 pm

Joe

Hey kirk,

I really love reading the M2M encounters on your blog!

Any chance you’ll be in Singapore soon?

April 7, 2010 at 9:55 am

love2sucku

hi you have the sexiest bod do you have any plan going in the philippines coz if you do , can i taste you

May 7, 2010 at 10:49 pm

ariz

i guess i like you so much, but i fear you are not, cause i am slim body. i never do it something more kising and touching body each other.

May 18, 2010 at 6:41 pm

adDixz

Hi there Kirk, I saw your profile in manjam so I decide to check it out. At first it is about ur body..(damn its hot…) then I read about the M2M story.. Well I really like that story and you got a nice character inside it got me hook up. Keep posting the story for us okay buddy!!
Have a great day to you!

adDixz or tebumanis from Manjam

May 23, 2010 at 9:05 am

francis

hi sexytenga this is francis from firdae, ur very sexy man.. i do hope we can met someday..take care

May 29, 2010 at 4:13 am

sexytenga

lol… glad you liked the stories cos there are some that dont and they said i make all these up. been really busy lately and even struggling to get enough sleep. lost weight too ‘sob’.

June 29, 2010 at 2:43 pm

dstalker

im going to SG in august how to meet u sexytenga??can i spend 1 day with u?

August 23, 2010 at 3:54 am

fayaz khan

hey you have a wonderful profile as i read it and as well as a nice body wowwwwwwww
you look so hot
love it

October 21, 2010 at 9:10 pm

Fred Baird

Kirk (aka SexyTenga)-
First I want to say that I appreciate the link from Fridae. I too, found you there because I found your pictures attractive. Then I read the profile, and although I am drawn to your physique, I am more drawn to you mind. And of course that well written profile brought me to this site. Now this site definitely shows off your talent as a writer/story teller. Your writing skills are quite developed and each time I read your work, the more impressed I get (Yes, I have been here several times, but this is the first time I am ‘brave’ enough to comment.). Please continue to write about your experiences as they interesting, entertaining, descriptive and slightly pornographic…. which of course are the reasons most of us read them (well at least me).

Until I read your page on Fridae, I had never heard of the Tenga. I have now seen the video and visited the site and have to admit that I am more than tempted to obtain one (or more) to check them out personally…. thank you for widening my horizon.

I don’t expect a reply, but it would be wonderful to hear directly from you. I really do believe you are an excellent writer and I would enjoy reading more. If you are ever in the Miami, Florida (USA) area, please feel free to let me know as I might be able to suggest some places that you might enjoy. Take care and thanks for sharing.

November 11, 2010 at 7:39 pm

John Lim

wow. interesting site. Haha. You surely have a good share of erotic experiences I’m in NYC. Hit me up sometime n we can chat Kirk

January 10, 2011 at 1:41 pm

longbridge

wellcome to thailand

February 14, 2011 at 3:36 am

hello Kirk
there wasnt much update in your blog so means you not fucking much lately or too much till you dont have time to write. how about a video instead?
ok, I dare you.
maybe I can send you a video i made of myself too

February 26, 2011 at 7:46 pm

salam

i love u i laike u i want sexy man but u verey nice sent sexy photo 4 me

March 24, 2011 at 6:30 am

Rocky

Hi,

When are u coming to Thailand again?

April 19, 2011 at 12:31 am

Christophe

you’re damn right, life is far too short to be little

July 21, 2011 at 12:24 am

Dany Atalla

Where are you now?

July 31, 2011 at 5:15 am

Stefan Johnason

Hey Kirk – just come across your site – fantastic sitre man – loved all – jokes bio the lot – mind if l follow you online with feeds now please! – cheer and keep it going man – Stef xxx

lm on FB if you wanna leave a message – thank again! xx

December 12, 2011 at 2:20 am

bodrock1

hi..i wander whether we can meet up..so you can fuck me?

January 8, 2012 at 2:44 am

QUAN

i jus’t feel im loving u

hope to meet u…i will so happy to meet u .

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